Be not Selfish!

When we do planning, we always put ourselves first on the list, because we believe that no one can make our life better but us. But it will not work if we will be a self-centered person. Any success will not satisfy us if we will keep it to ourselves and not share to those who need it. Consideration to others should take place in any decision we make.

Same thing when it comes to any relationship. It should takes two in every decision, but what if you’re both in different sides? Who will follow? What if other wants to go and other wants to stay? Leaving someone doesnt mean that you are inconsiderate because before you come out to one relationship its not just a one click. Being fair is what you always wanted but it may never be like that to the person who will receive goodbye. Its not easy to comprehend and letting go is the hardest thing to do. Once we have in our hand the one that we really love, we dont want to lose it and we dont want to take it by others. We will keep it and close it to our fists as long as we can… without knowing that we already victim of self-centeredness. Thats why when the time comes that we have to open our hand and let it free… its a big NO. Who can bear to lose something very special?? To give up and let go something/someone special is not a cowardice but rather a manifestation that we can accept what is meant and not meant for us. No matter we like one thing but without God’s grace, it’ll never be for us. God will give what we really need and not what we WANT.